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RE: Blair Morgan...
Aww man, that poor bastard. He sure will have a rough road ahead of him but atleast he is alive.
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wrczx3
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09/25/08 09:52pm |
Open Forum
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RE: Quotes from the Racist Obama
yami fo life you are a fcuking moron if you think that he is under bin laden, ido agree that some of the remarks in his book are crossong the line, but the whole osama thing is a little out there, a lot out there That might be true, our little Canuck friend. But remember this: If America goes down the crapper, Canada will be sucked down right behind us. This election will effect you're country also. You don't have enough Mounties to fight the ragheads. And you're military, lets face it, the women's basketball league has tougher people in it!
That is funny right there.
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wrczx3
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09/18/08 08:05am |
Fight Club
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
Hey wrczx3,
Congrats on the relationship. There is something underlying within her. Did she not get attention as a younger kid? Did her mom or dad die or leave at a young age? Is she depressed?
Obviously she trust you enough to tell you about this. And I think she wants help to stop it. Otherwise she would have kept it from you longer.
Tell her to call you or meet with you when ever she has the urge to cut her self.
As funny as it is YourAd was right remove all sharp object that are easy for her to get to.
If she has to hurt her self. Hurt herself with no scars. A good idea is to wear a rubber band around your wrist. Every time you want to cut, snap the rubber band against your wrist instead. You can also draw on your wrist with red pen, or rub an ice cube on your wrist. Although all of these cause some immediate pain, it is much milder and much less dangerous.
Tell her to write down what she is feeling at that time she has that urge. Maybe then you will be able to pin point what it at the root of the problem
Have her recognize that cutting is just the symptom of a root problem.
I think this is a great situation for a mentally strong person to be in. If you think you can deal with it you need to be committed to helping her all the way through it. Even if the boyfriend girlfriend relationship doesn't work she should still be able to depend on you to help her with this.
You can also hold your prize as a reward. Tell her you don't want to put your relationship into the next step until the cutting stops. And make sure she isn't hiding it.
I'm no Dr. for sure but I've had a friend a long time ago with this situation. And these are some tips I remembered from them.
p.s. the internet did help remind me of some tips.
Thanks for the tips and advice. You are right that she has MANY underlying issues. If I told all you guys them, you would really tell me to roll the hell out of there. She is getting counseling for those problems but she'll always be haunted by her past. I can only make her future better and can't help her past. I don't want to push her cutting issue too much at this stage and don't want to ponder on it all the time. I want her to know she can trust me enough that together she can learn other coping techniques. I want her Doctors to fix her and me to support her. I was a Drug and Alcohol counselor and have a degree in substance abuse counseling so I know how to counsel. I also work as a volunteer at the VA hospital as a counselor for injured Vets and mainly young soldiers with spinal cord injuries.
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wrczx3
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09/12/08 10:16am |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
The best rewards always come with the highest risks. What do you have to loose? Sounds like you already have your mind made up and just look for reassurance. Go for it, dude. Of course, should go without saying, just keep your eyes open.
I'm gonna ask something that could really pizz you off, not the intention, but I know you expect nothing less from me :B..and hey, we have to be real about things right!? I know you are in a wheelchair and such...with that said...are you able to have s@x? Do you have feeling there? This can be very important because a hot 25 yo is going to be horny and if you can't give it to her, she will find someone that can. EVEN if she is your girlfriend. Just keep your eyes open is all I'm sayin.
You know THEMAN? I have a new found respect for you and you are right about the fact I have already made up my mind and I was just looking for reassurance I guess. Nothing that people ask me pisses me off because the more I talk about my situation, the more I give away any pain involved. I don't want to toot my own horn but I have more than satisfied her so she tells me. I can not feel the unit 100% and it don't work like it did before my accident but since they came out with Viagra, I am a stallion. I also have a tongue that Gene Simmons would envy.How about a pic of your tongue,so I can see what I need to do,to satisfy my girl friend:B
Just ask your gf snake how much bigger my tongue is than your unit.
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wrczx3
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09/11/08 08:43pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
The best rewards always come with the highest risks. What do you have to loose? Sounds like you already have your mind made up and just look for reassurance. Go for it, dude. Of course, should go without saying, just keep your eyes open.
I'm gonna ask something that could really pizz you off, not the intention, but I know you expect nothing less from me :B..and hey, we have to be real about things right!? I know you are in a wheelchair and such...with that said...are you able to have s@x? Do you have feeling there? This can be very important because a hot 25 yo is going to be horny and if you can't give it to her, she will find someone that can. EVEN if she is your girlfriend. Just keep your eyes open is all I'm sayin.
You know THEMAN? I have a new found respect for you and you are right about the fact I have already made up my mind and I was just looking for reassurance I guess. Nothing that people ask me pisses me off because the more I talk about my situation, the more I give away any pain involved. I don't want to toot my own horn but I have more than satisfied her so she tells me. I can not feel the unit 100% and it don't work like it did before my accident but since they came out with Viagra, I am a stallion. I also have a tongue that Gene Simmons would envy.
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wrczx3
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09/11/08 03:29pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
Here's my 2 cents, and since I never hardly come on here I might not even see the rest of this thread.
Be very, very, very careful, especially with your trust of her. I don't want to sound like a jerk, but it's not hard for someone to put on an act and do a good job of it. You can get wrapped up in a whole mess really quick. Maybe it's not a big deal and everything is ok, but there's always the possiblity you could be on some thin ice man.
Your advice is well taken and thank you. What kind of act are refering to?
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wrczx3
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09/10/08 10:06pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
Dear Abby: When I was single, I had this girl friend that was much younger,and the sex was absolutely a ten! Well, when I found out she was a cross dresser,I asked her not to do it.Her answer was: If the Man can do it ,so can I...BWAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa HAaaaaaaaa HAaaaaaaaaaaaaa "The Man" ...cross dresser....on a much more serious note:When you find a person you like,and that person is unstable,your not a Dr.,and your looking for a future of trouble.Values, does she have any values? I bet she makes you think your 25 !You could pull your pud,and it wouldn't cost you anything but some blister creme..:BSomebody speaking from experience, obviously.^^^ Go with the flow WR, watch for goldiggers. No worries, just be careful you're not getting set up, that's all. 25 year old? Lucky Bastarge! Wait a minute my oldest daughter is 25, what's her name mister?
I am a lucky barstard huh brother? She isn't a gold digger at all. She is the super low maintenance as far as that goes. She could care less about money. If she is you daughter, do you want me to start calling you Dad?
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wrczx3
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09/10/08 08:52pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
Cutting
I say take into account some of things that have been said here, but to decide what to you..you must follow your heart. Hey, if you decide to give her a chance, I support that decision. I don't, however, agree to simply cutting (no put intended) and running. Maybe you what she needs to cure this issue. Perhaps she's the one to you've been waiting for. Perhaps she's not. There is only one way to know. Besides, what's the worst that could happen? The relationship doesn't work out. yeah, that sucks and will put you down for awhile, but you get over it and there are lessons learned for the next one.
Thanks for the words of encouragement and the link THEMAN. She is worth giving a chance to thats for sure.
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wrczx3
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09/10/08 08:49pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
if she cuts herself and has not died yet she is not trying to kill oneself that is just to get attention. next time look and see which way the cuts are if it is across the wrist or where ever i wouldnt worry to much but if it is vertical yea i would really take that into consideration. in todays society who cares 25 45 18 30 no one cares any more and like blaster said i would try and probe around and find out why.. or just ask her and be strait forward why the H#ell do you slice on yourself for? and maybe you could suggest that instead of cutting oneself you could go donate blood once a month and it could save someones life one day.. i mean if you just really feel the need to bleed at least give it to someone who can use it...but yea like everyone else is saying dont let your gaurd down dont get to attached the best thing you could probably do besides her.. is be a good friend and just keep an eye out for her well being
like keep her around the house and go and do things....kinda like being put on suicide watch but not really if you know what i mean?
this may seem kinda odd and a little off topic but i herd a song by seether called "love her" it is similar in a way but not really i dunno give it a listen
People that cut themselves don't do it for attention. They do it so thet can "feel". She hides them on her hip where nobody can see them. She also has never told anyone or shown anyone besides me. I have already shown her if she wants to "feel" stuff, I can help her with that issue.:)
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wrczx3
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09/10/08 11:29am |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
Dear Abby: When I was single, I had this girl friend that was much younger,and the sex was absolutely a ten! Well, when I found out she was a cross dresser,I asked her not to do it.Her answer was: If the Man can do it ,so can I...BWAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa HAaaaaaaaa HAaaaaaaaaaaaaa "The Man" ...cross dresser....on a much more serious note:When you find a person you like,and that person is unstable,your not a Dr.,and your looking for a future of trouble.Values, does she have any values? I bet she makes you think your 25 !You could pull your pud,and it wouldn't cost you anything but some blister creme..:B
I don't have to pull my pud. I still have enough game that I can get hot chicks to do it for me!
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wrczx3
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09/09/08 10:46pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
Dear Abby: When I was single, I had this girl friend that was much younger,and the sex was absolutely a ten! Well, when I found out she was a cross dresser,I asked her not to do it.Her answer was: If the Man can do it ,so can I...BWAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa HAaaaaaaaa HAaaaaaaaaaaaaa "The Man" ...cross dresser....on a much more serious note:When you find a person you like,and that person is unstable,your not a Dr.,and your looking for a future of trouble.Values, does she have any values? I bet she makes you think your 25 !
Of course she has values. She is a great person that just needs help. We all need help at some point in our life. She doesn't make me feel 25 at all. I don't really think about her age to be honest with you and she doesn't either or we wouldn't have gone out in the first place. I don't want to feel 25 anyways. I like being 45 with a young spirit. I kind of have the best of both worlds.
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wrczx3
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09/09/08 10:44pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
You guys have some good points but lets face it, all chicks are crazy. Atleast I know what issues she has plus, I must admit that it is pretty awesome to have a WILD 25 year old chick at my age.
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wrczx3
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09/09/08 04:58pm |
Open Forum
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RE: I need some serious advice guys
She already goes for therapy.
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wrczx3
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09/09/08 03:05pm |
Open Forum
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I need some serious advice guys
Alright, so I meet this girl at work about three months ago. I trained her and we hit it off on the first night and exchanged email addresses. We worked for about a week or two until she was trained and then she went to work at another store. I asked her out after about a month and she made up a few weak excuses why should could make it. I eventually get to take her out and our first date lasted 24 hours. We had a great time and really got along great. A few details are however in order. She is 25 and I am 45. That in itself can be an issue. Well the other night she writes me and tells me she has been keeping a secret from me. She tells me that she "cuts" herself. To say the least I am a little freaked out. She calls me right after the email and tell me she is sooooooo sorry she didn't call me before she cut herself and that she held back telling me this about her and that she loves me. I told her i'll be there for her but in no way try to fix her. That is way beyong my pay grade! She is smoking sexy and totally rocks my world. Anyone ever have experience with someone that "cuts" themselves? What would you guys do? Most people tell me to GTFO of there. Any ideas?
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wrczx3
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09/09/08 02:35pm |
Open Forum
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RE: Honda Finally did it
This may be my new machine.
Great bike for my wife! I would like it from time to time too.
I only weight about 140lbs and it would be plenty for me. I am not out to win any races just enjoy the woods.
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wrczx3
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09/06/08 02:35pm |
Utility/4x4
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RE: Honda Finally did it
This may be my new machine.
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wrczx3
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09/06/08 12:20pm |
Utility/4x4
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RE: I thought I would share some pics
Nice! That is some man heaven right there.
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wrczx3
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09/04/08 01:25pm |
Open Forum
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RE: My god D@MN truck!
haha if you WANT to have problems..put a 6" lift on it and 38" tires. Surely, it's not a daily driver? If so, you are in for a real treat. And you thought you had problems now. :D Oh, have fun splitting the front cases to put the 4.56 gears you'll need for the 38" tires. Believe me, the 1993 stock 5.7 at a massive 220hp isn't gonna be enough. Get stocked up on ball joints, tie rod ends, power steering pumps, u-joints, cv-joints, gears, transmissions, and tires.
I can't even begin to tell you the maintenance required for 38" tires. Hope you like working on the truck and having the utmost in no reliability.
I hope you have a lot of extra cash to spend..becauses you're gonna need it. Good luck!
That's for sure!
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wrczx3
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08/25/08 10:26pm |
Open Forum
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RE: Got it ( new computer)
E machine makes a great computer for the money
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wrczx3
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08/25/08 10:00pm |
Open Forum
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RE: Gator Hunt
I took out a huge squirrel the other day with my right tire. I was going about 35 and flattened that little bastard.
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wrczx3
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08/23/08 03:15pm |
Open Forum
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